posted by popasmear (userid: 71.231.JyJ7hU) on december 11, 2015 at 00:01:39 est in reply to interesting point. i do agree that you're essentially talking about something shared with someone else without their input, and it made me think about confidants... in some respect sharing information about your sexy partner is a bit like sharing nude pix of them (on a sliding scale) which i think is so disgusting (and thankfully, increasingly illegal). but in other ways, i feel like lack of openness about sex is so problematic. i think my question is maybe more like "are you confident to talk about sex things that happen, and receive advice/support* from peers" if you felt it was important to do that. i don't think i have been, and i was wondering if that was unusual, i wanted to know that when i made (recently) a blanket statement that men are largely uncomfortable talking about sex in a real way if i was totally off-base. from aerisdead.
i do think having a person or some people who you're comfortable talking to about stuff is probably good? people are super awkward about sex, and i think it's probably hard to get a sense of how normal all the stuff one assumes is weird actually is. also, laughing about this stuff is probably good. have you ever come at an expected time, perhaps landing somewhere entirely unintended? i sure have.
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